By Paige Gurgainers
A growing need for support among grieving fathers is at the heart of an upcoming community gathering in Minden designed specifically to honor and uplift dads who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss.
The Hearts & Halos Organization will host the upcoming “Daddies With Angels Cookout,” on June 27 at Miller Quarters Park from 2 to 6 p.m. The gathering aims to provide a welcoming outdoor space focused on connection, conversation and community support for families navigating grief and healing.
Research and internal surveys shared by organizers suggest that nearly 75% of fathers say they need more support after the loss of a child.
“When pregnancy loss or infant loss happens, much of the support naturally centers around mothers,” said Neisa Murray, founder of Hearts & Halos Organization. “Fathers often feel pressure to be the strong one, supporting their partner, holding the family together and pushing their own grief aside.”
Murray said that expectation can lead many fathers to experience grief alone, which may contribute to long-term emotional and mental health challenges if left unaddressed.
“We work intentionally to break that barrier,” Murray said. “We include fathers in the support we provide by creating resources specifically written for dads, hosting gatherings where men can connect and feel recognized, and encouraging open conversations about the way fathers experience grief.”
One of those efforts is the upcoming Daddies With Angels Cookout. The event will feature cookout-style food (while supplies last), games, a healing activity, and music from DJ Derrick. Organizers emphasize that the gathering will remain a clean, family-centered environment designed to promote unity and support.
Community partners including Men and Women of Courage are also expected to participate, with organizers expressing appreciation for their continued support.
“We extend our gratitude to them for consistently supporting our community, our cause and helping us give back to those in need,” Murray said.
If you know a father who has experienced or been affected by pregnancy or infant loss, organizers encourage sharing the event and inviting supportive friends and family. They emphasize that fathers deserve recognition, support and community as they navigate grief.
For more information, to volunteer, or to sponsor the event, contact heartsandhalosorg@gmail.com or visit the organization’s Facebook page. This event is free to attend, but registration is encouraged. The deadline to register is June 17.